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Private Family Constellation Retreat

Break free from limiting patterns

Private tiny house

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Fully personal

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3 days & 3 nights

ABOUT THE PROGRAM

Let go of what is holding you back

A Family Constellation is a powerful method that uncovers hidden dynamics in your family and relationships. It helps you see how unresolved patterns from your family system might be shaping your current life and guides you toward healing and release.

Is this for you?

This retreat is for you if you want to free yourself from inherited belief systems that no longer serve you.
Common themes include:

  • Lack of confidence

  • Anxiety or passiveness

  • Difficulty setting boundaries

  • Troubled relationships

  • Anger or inner restlessness

  • Feeling stuck in repeating cycles

Free orientation call
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A deeply personal retreat shaped around you

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What can you expect?

  • In a Family Constellation session, we create a “living map” of your family system. With the help of representatives, key people and themes are embodied in physical space, bringing unconscious patterns into the light. This method goes beyond traditional talk therapy. It’s not about blame or analysis, but about seeing, feeling, and moving forward with compassion and clarity.

  • See how past family events still influence your thoughts, emotions, behaviors, and relationships.

  • Address inherited pain and gently break free from what no longer serves you.

  • Experience emotional shifts, deep inner knowing, and a renewed sense of self.

YOUR RETREAT JOURNEY

Day 1

Arrival

Settle into your home in nature. Rest, explore, and meet with us (Thomas & Beatrice) to gently uncover what is ready to be seen and healed.

Day 2

Deep Dive

A full day dedicated to your constellation session. We will invite representatives to House of the Valley to join your process. Includes a shared lunch and time for rest and reflection.

Day 3

Integration

This day is about whatever you need: rest, movement, journaling, a swim, or a follow-up session. Constellations have a deep impact; we’ll be on standby to support your integration.

FOOD AND STAY

Designed for Healing

You’ll stay in one of our lovingly crafted Private Tiny Houses, surrounded by nature and quiet. We offer everything you need for three nourishing and organic meals a day, plus snacks. Some meals are prepared for you, and others will be ready in your kitchen. Your Tiny House is fully equipped for cooking and comfort.

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A small elevated wooden deck with steps, surrounded by green plants and trees, with a small green and brown cabin or shed on top.
A white bowl filled with assorted fresh vegetables, including peas, radishes, cucumber, arugula, and avocado slices, topped with hummus, garnished with seeds and herbs. There is a fork resting on the side and a glass of water nearby.

Price

€ 1.800 (ex V)

This includes:

  • 3 nights private stay

  • All sessions and guidance

  • Family constellation with invited representatives

  • All meals and snacks

  • Full support before, during, and after

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A church with a bell tower and a red tiled roof, set against a hill and a clear blue sky at sunset.
Wooden balcony with railing, hanging plant pot with green ivy, view of lush green trees and blue sky with clouds.
A cozy bedroom with wooden walls, ceiling, and floor, featuring a bed with a white sheet, a paper lantern hanging from the ceiling, a small corner shelf, and a doorway leading to a green outdoor area visible through the open door.
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A large green potted plant with lush, broad leaves is placed on a wooden surface next to a small, orange-lit decorative lamp.
A small black house with a red roof on a hillside surrounded by trees, with the sun shining brightly in a clear blue sky.
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MEET YOUR HOSTS

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Thomas

Thomas is a systemic coach and retreat facilitator with a calm, steady presence. He has a sharp eye for patterns and a grounded way of guiding people back to themselves. His sessions help you slow down, feel what’s really going on beneath the surface, and start making space for change. Guests often describe feeling safe, seen, and supported in his presence.

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Beatrice

Beatrice is an intuitive guide and business coach who works with warmth, depth, and a clear sense of knowing. She quickly sees what’s underneath the surface and helps you reconnect with your inner truth. Her support is both soft and direct, offering clarity, confidence, and a deep sense of coming home to yourself.

We also offer

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    Walk with Horses

    We offer guided horse walks with Elisah Kraayenbrink at The Nova, a beautiful estate nearby. This is not about riding, but walking side by side with the horses, tuning into their calm presence and intuitive awareness. It’s a grounding and often spiritual experience. A moment to slow down, reconnect, and experience the wisdom of these gentle animals in a stunning natural setting. The cost is € 150, for a 1,5 hour session.

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    Airport shuttle service

    We offer a shuttle service from Porto Airport to House of the Valley. The drive takes about 45 minutes and is handled by a professional, friendly driver who knows the route well. If you'd like to use this service, please let us know in advance so we can arrange it for you. The cost is € 70, to be paid in cash directly to the driver.

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    Ayurvedic Massage

    To support your body’s natural balance and deepen your relaxation, we offer Ayurvedic massages in the comfort of your tiny house. This traditional form of massage uses warm herbal oils and flowing movements to calm the nervous system, release tension, and restore energy. Sessions are given by our trusted massage therapist, who visits House of the Valley by appointment. The cost is € 80, for a 1,5 hour session.

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What people say

  • I participated in a family constellation session led by Thomas and beautifully facilitated by Beatrice, with seven representatives. The quality of the experience was exceptional, it deeply moved and inspired me.

    Job

  • “I took part at a family constellation and I had never done one before. I did not know what to expect. I definitely did not expect such a powerful and healing journey for everybody. I felt super safe, Thomas and Beatrice did an incredible job in holding space in such a loving and kind way.”

    Claudia

  • "House of the Valley is more than a retreat location. It is a magical place that opens inner doors to healing, self-love, and acceptance."

    Elisah

  • “Thomas has guided me with so much love and calm. From a place of trust and knowledge, he has been an anchor in a turbulent time. He offered me clear exercises that provided space and insight into my process.”

    Merijn

  • "For anyone longing to come home to themselves, to be touched on a soul level, and to be guided by two beautiful people: I wholeheartedly recommend this place and this special couple."

    Julia

  • “Thomas sensed pain and stress in my body before I was even aware of it. He has given me the courage to be with the sensations, truly feel them, and ultimately release them. Working with Thomas has been transformational.”

    Jasper

  • My experience was deeply moving. Thomas and Beatrice held the space with such presence and integrity. I felt safe, seen, and amazed by how much could shift in just a few days.

    João