Private Family Constellations

Just 35km from Porto

At House of the Valley, we offer Family Constellation sessions in a loving and supportive environment, surrounded by nature.

Break free from limiting patterns

A Family Constellation is a powerful tool that helps uncover hidden dynamics within families and relationships. It's a process that reveals how your family's past influences your present life and helps you address and heal these influences.


How It Works


In a Family Constellation session, we create a "living map" of your family system. Participants take on roles representing family members or key elements of your life. By stepping into these roles, they experience the emotions and relationships as if they were their own. This interactive process brings to light the unseen patterns and entanglements affecting you.

Break the cycle

We believe that real change takes depth, attention, and safety. That’s why we choose to work in a private one-on-one setting. In our Family Constellation sessions, the entire space is held just for you. Together with carefully selected representatives, Thomas and Beatrice are fully dedicated to your question, there are no other participants. This gives us the space to slow down, listen deeply, and explore what’s beneath the surface. By working this way, we can get to the root of long-standing patterns and support real, lasting transformation.

This is a one-on-one constellation day, fully focused on your question. Without a group, there’s space for depth, privacy, and clarity. With the help of carefully chosen representatives, we bring hidden dynamics to light, whether your theme is personal, relational, or professional.

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Private Family Constellation Day

The Private Retreat offers a deep and personal journey into your family system. In three days, we create space to explore what’s been holding you back and support lasting change from the root.

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Become a Representative

We are always looking for representatives for our private constellation sessions. As a representative, you experience the same systemic insights and emotional shifts often gaining clarity in your own life by simply showing up for someone else. Curious to join? Send us a message.

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What makes these sessions different

Every constellation space has its own way of working. At House of the Valley, we choose a slower, more spacious approach.

Rather than working within tight time slots because there are multiple participants waiting for their turn, we give your question the attention it needs.

There’s room for multiple constellations if the process calls for it, so we can explore different layers and directions.

You’re not just held during the session itself, but also before and after, with space to reflect, land, and truly take in what’s shifted.

What can you expect?

  • Discover how past family events and relationships impact your current life.

  • Address issues passed down through generations, helping you break free from limiting patterns

  • Experience profound insights and emotional shifts that can lead to healing and transformation.

MEET YOUR HOSTS

Thomas

Thomas is a systemic coach and retreat facilitator with a calm, steady presence. He has a sharp eye for patterns and a grounded way of guiding people back to themselves. His sessions help you slow down, feel what’s really going on beneath the surface, and start making space for change. Guests often describe feeling safe, seen, and supported in his presence.

Beatrice

Beatrice is an intuitive guide and business coach who works with warmth, depth, and a clear sense of knowing. She quickly sees what’s underneath the surface and helps you reconnect with your inner truth. Her support is both soft and direct, offering clarity, confidence, and a deep sense of coming home to yourself.

We also offer

  • Retreats

    We offer guided horse walks with Elisah Kraayenbrink at The Nova, a beautiful estate nearby. This is not about riding, but walking side by side with the horses, tuning into their calm presence and intuitive awareness. It’s a grounding and often spiritual experience. A moment to slow down, reconnect, and experience the wisdom of these gentle animals in a stunning natural setting. The cost is € 150, for a 1,5 hour session.

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  • Intuitive Coaching Sessions

    We offer a shuttle service from Porto Airport to House of the Valley. The drive takes about 45 minutes and is handled by a professional, friendly driver who knows the route well. If you'd like to use this service, please let us know in advance so we can arrange it for you. The cost is € 70, to be paid in cash directly to the driver.

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  • Relaxing stays in nature

    To support your body’s natural balance and deepen your relaxation, we offer Ayurvedic massages in the comfort of your tiny house. This traditional form of massage uses warm herbal oils and flowing movements to calm the nervous system, release tension, and restore energy. Sessions are given by our trusted massage therapist, who visits House of the Valley by appointment. The cost is € 80, for a 1,5 hour session.

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What people say

  • I participated in a family constellation session led by Thomas and beautifully facilitated by Beatrice, with seven representatives. The quality of the experience was exceptional, it deeply moved and inspired me.

    Job

  • “I took part at a family constellation and I had never done one before. I did not know what to expect. I definitely did not expect such a powerful and healing journey for everybody. I felt super safe, Thomas and Beatrice did an incredible job in holding space in such a loving and kind way.”

    Claudia

  • "House of the Valley is more than a retreat location. It is a magical place that opens inner doors to healing, self-love, and acceptance."

    Elisah

  • “Thomas has guided me with so much love and calm. From a place of trust and knowledge, he has been an anchor in a turbulent time. He offered me clear exercises that provided space and insight into my process.”

    Merijn

  • "For anyone longing to come home to themselves, to be touched on a soul level, and to be guided by two beautiful people: I wholeheartedly recommend this place and this special couple."

    Julia

  • “Thomas sensed pain and stress in my body before I was even aware of it. He has given me the courage to be with the sensations, truly feel them, and ultimately release them. Working with Thomas has been transformational.”

    Jasper

  • My experience was deeply moving. Thomas and Beatrice held the space with such presence and integrity. I felt safe, seen, and amazed by how much could shift in just a few days.

    João